I fully understand what you are saying. I was introduced to this site by a friend. I was in Hawaii and had no one to dive with. He told to take a look and the I found a lot of great people to dive with while I was in Hawaii. I moved to New Jersey and had no one to dive with there. I jumped on the site and looked around and found out about a divebuddy get together at Dutch Springs. It met some really great people that day. I have made a lot of great friends and had some great dives thanks to the site. I try to help promote the site as much as possible as well as promote the sport I love so much. I answer every message that is sent to me that asks me a question. If you send me a message that makes a statement, I respond only if I have something to say. I look forward to diving with everyone I meet until they give me good cause to never dive with them again.