Hi sweety haven’t heard from u in a while. Ur best bet with the wet suits is to go the dive shops a try them out, if u try to buy it online u have to have tried on before each manufacturer is different plus the material they use is different, the strechiness of the suit makes a big deal. As far as fit after use, stays the same but the more use the gets specially to deeper depths, the more the suits loose their thermal insulating capabalities. So bottom line u need to try on the suit at the shop before u buy it online.
Keep in touch maybe I’ll show up and we can go diving at Point Lobos LOL
JC