The idea of making her part of the process is an excellent idea. Unfortunately, with her, it won’t work. She detests the idea of them and will, at times, make a slight remark when she sees either of my other two. One I got 10 years before I met her, the other while "We were on a break." She’s not very "bribe-able" because of her ethics, but that would come closer to working that anything I’ve thought of so far. :) Keep the ideas coming folks, this fun. (And gonna cause me trouble..LOL)