As I said if they wanted a female instructor and you were willing they would take care of you and offer you instruction free of charge except for the materials and Organization’s fees. (PADI or SDI) It’s kind of an internship. Until you pass your professional level certs. Since they are not offering anything of the like don’t expect the job to pan out when you are done. Since you are paying your own way I’d stick with the PADI program.