THERE you are Kory! HEY, you wanna be my Buddy? Seriously, I invite members who either express similar hobbies as I (other than diving - duh), live somewhere I`m thinking of visiting (so I can get local info) or they seem to be humorious. Cute helps too, hey I`m a guy! Chances are that I`ll never dive, or even meet, with 99.99 percent of my "Buddies". Like someone else said, just say "no thanks" and let it go or add something in your Profile that says you just don`t want to be sociable with the general population.