Hi Shannon, I can understand how you feel. Do not dump someone you like cause they have different interests. I have been diving since 2006 & my husband will not dive. He’s tried it & has no interest in it, but as Greg said he is always there for me cause he is my surface help. My hubby used to never swim but through our 15 yrs together & just being around water he has learned to swim, be comfortable in a wetsuit, snorkel, & now loves the manatee/snorkel dives. When I met him it was "No way in Hell i’m doing that! Now we go to our dive locations together, he helps me get set-up, he keeps an eye out for surface traffic, & is there if we need help. I love knowing he’s up top & got my back if I need him! I have dive buddies! They are there to dive with. No worries about your love not wanting to dive or not being comfortable with water. If he’s the one, things have a way of working out. Just relax & enjoy diving!