My daughter uses an Oceanic womans BC and likes it but I really think the best BCD for a woman is a Back Plate and Wing setup with a hog harness. Unfortunetly most shops don’t sell them.
With a BP & W you can mix and match whatever works for you best. A back plate that fits you from one manufacture, a wing from another. Deep Sea Supply even has wings in color which is more important to women than guys :) I’ve seen some women use car seatbelts for the harness, they come in colors and are softer on the sholders.
And yes for those on here who know me, my cold water BP&W has a blue car seatbelt harness.